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Causes and Solutions of Asexuality

Many couples suffer from "asexuality." However, many people don't know what to do if their partner actually refuses to have sex with them. This time, we will cover the causes of asexuality and explain several suggested solutions. If you want to have sex with your partner like you used to, be sure to watch until the end. What are the criteria for judging asexuality?

One of the problems faced by many couples is lack of sex life
Many people may be wondering, "What does it mean to have no sex life?" "Are we also asexual?" According to researchers, "couples who have not had sex for more than a month without special circumstances" are considered asexual. However, in reality, if a person considers themselves asexual, then they are asexual. If one spouse or partner wants to have sex but does not have sex for a long time, it is called asexuality. On the other hand, there are situations where you don't think of yourself as asexual, but when you tell people around you how often you have sex, they tell you that you are. In particular, there are many cases of "secret asexuality" without even realizing it, so it is important to understand the frequency of sexual intercourse every day.

Reasons for asexuality vary from couple to couple
I no longer feel attractive as a woman, I'm busy, don't have time, stress caused by tension, please check if this applies to you. I no longer find myself attractive as a woman, one possible reason for being asexual is that your partner no longer finds women attractive. However, some men find that changes in appearance make them feel less attractive to women and they lose their desire for sex. Due to stress caused by tension, it is common for men to become nervous and unable to have sex. Since the male genitals become erect when a man is relaxed, it becomes difficult to have an erection when he is tense. The situation may be worsened if you are busy and not feeling well, or if you feel pressured to have sex while trying to conceive.

A few ways to get rid of lack of sexual desire!
In order to solve the problem of asexuality, it is important to eliminate the resistance to sex. It is best to first increase the number of physical contacts that you feel comfortable with, and then gradually develop the habit of short-term sexual intercourse after getting used to each other's contact.

1. If your partner is always nervous and unable to get an erection, we recommend boosting yourself

The second way to overcome asexuality is to improve yourself. For couples who have been together for a long time, not wearing makeup or wearing home clothes at home is likely to lose their femininity. If you don't forget that you are a woman and don't neglect self-improvement, your partner may also recognize you as a woman. In fact, there are many couples who no longer identify as women and end up not having sex. Therefore, even at home, if you wear light makeup and dress carefully, you may be able to solve the problem of low sexual desire.

2. Separate bedroom

If you can have separate bedrooms, try not to sleep together. Separate bedrooms can transform the feeling of family into that of men and women. Also, you don't feel safe because you can have sex at any time, so you don't have to worry today that sleeping together occasionally will increase your interest in sex. However, if you can't have a separate bedroom, try adjusting your bedroom environment.

Declutter your bedroom so you can relax with fragrant scents while you sleep. If you can relax, your sex drive is likely to increase, so if you want to escape asexuality, try to create an environment where you can relax.

3. Have an extraordinary time

Spending unconventional time together is also a suggested way to ease asexuality. If you meet and date like you did when you first started dating, you'll probably get to know your partner better than you normally would. If you spend some time together in the evening in a bar with a good atmosphere, you may be able to talk about your feelings more honestly than usual. In addition to dating, traveling alone is also recommended because you can have an extraordinary time. If you have a special day and feel as excited as you did when you first started dating, your resistance to sex will disappear and you'll be able to stop having sex.

4. Consider the frequency of sex

Considering how often you have sex with your partner is also an effective way to address asexuality issues. If you both recognize that you are not having sex, let's think about the reasons why you are not having sex. Even if you don't know the exact cause, it's important for both of you to work together to find a solution.

Discuss and decide on the ideal frequency of sex for both of you
Ideas and ideals vary from person to person, such as once a month or once a week. By adjusting the sexual values between two people, the problem of asexuality will be solved. We recommend sex toys to save time when you're on the go. If you don't have time to have sex because you don't have time or are too tired, we recommend using sex toys to have sex in a short period of time. Ideally, to have satisfying sex, you should take the time to caress and get your partner into a state of relaxation. However, if your partner is busy, taking the time to caress him becomes cumbersome, and he may develop a negative attitude toward sex that takes a long time, leading to a lack of sex.

This time, we cover solutions for when your partner isn't having sex. In order to confront and resolve asexual issues, it's important that the two of you discuss the values and frequency of sex. Additionally, for couples who spend a lot of time together, trying to improve themselves and spend time outside of their daily lives can be an effective solution to asexual issues.

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