As night falls and you find yourself alone, your hand can't help but wander downward... Wait a minute!
Have you confirmed that the surroundings are safe? Haven't you done any cleaning yet? Are you just going to engage in a simple "piston motion"? There are so many parts of your body to explore, and a variety of toys are constantly emerging...
So, don't just rush through with simple up-and-down movements! Alone, you can slow down and truly enjoy the moment. Let's follow this guide and see how many new ways males can explore self-pleasure.
Safe and Private Environment
A safe environment is crucial. Imagine being in the middle of the act when someone suddenly barges in. How disappointing! Many people even develop erectile dysfunction due to being accidentally caught during sex or self-pleasure.
Although such erectile dysfunction can be treated with psychological intervention, turning what should be an enjoyable experience into a psychological shadow is hardly worth it.
Of course, a slightly risky environment can stimulate your senses more, leading you to reach a climax of pleasure. But remember, even in a "risky environment," it must be controllable. Safety always comes first!
Hygiene Matters
Cleanliness before self-pleasure is vital! Although the male penis has a different structure and is less prone to infection than the female vulva, many young men still suffer from penile inflammation.
So, for your health and a more enjoyable experience, thoroughly clean both your hands and any tools you plan to use.
Add Some Foreplay
Since you're going to pamper yourself, how can foreplay be missing? Don't think that a quick "rub" will suffice. Foreplay can fully engage your senses and double the enjoyment! Do you know your sensitive spots? Take this opportunity to explore your body!
Gently touch your neck, below the navel, inner thighs, scrotum, perineum, etc. (It's said that along the midline of the scrotum, you can see a raised line dividing it into two parts. Rubbing back and forth along this midline can bring great pleasure to young men!) If your glans is particularly sensitive, try touching it gently.
Visual stimulation is another crucial form of sexual arousal. Photos of your idols, adult films, or wild fantasies can all serve as excellent mood boosters. (Did you know? During sperm donation, the room's computer often has many small videos!)
Do You Need Lubricant?
Whether males need lubricant depends on personal preference. The penis does secrete lubricant, but it takes time, and some people don't produce much. So, external lubricant can be a helpful aid.
Of course, if you prefer the tingling sensation, go ahead and proceed without it.
Get Down to Business
After all these preparations, it's time to get intimate with your penis! Use your imagination. Besides the basic piston motion, what other ways can you care for your penis? Gently pinch the glans; or form an "O" shape with your index finger and thumb, then wrap it around the penis and stimulate it like milking; or place the penis between your palms and rub it back and forth...
"Gently pinch, slowly rub, and repeatedly tease"—this is the time for men to enjoy!
Using external "toys" can also bring a different kind of pleasure. Here are a few options:
1.Masturbator
Hands-free fleshlights, electric fleshlights, and 4D simulated fleshlights are constantly emerging. Before use, thoroughly clean the fleshlight. Then, apply an appropriate amount of lubricant to both the fleshlight and your penis. Wearing a condom is also a good protective measure and makes cleaning easier. Then, slowly enter and savor the feeling... Don't shake it too vigorously! Remember to clean it after use.
2.Anal Toys
After enjoying the front, why not try the back? The male anus is rich in nerves. Massaging this area can produce secretions that enhance sperm motility and aid in erection, leading to a more intense orgasm than usual. The sweet spot is about 5-8 centimeters inside the male anus. Regardless of your sexual orientation, the pleasure from the anus is something you have to experience to understand!
3.Penis Ring
Be cautious when choosing a penis ring. Some low-end penis rings are made of jelly rubber, which may feel amazing but contain phthalates, a toxic industrial chemical used to soften plastics. Safer, higher-quality penis rings are usually made of silicone, which may be firmer. To use, simply slip it onto the base of the penis and turn it on. The combined sensation of delayed ejaculation and vibration is truly wonderful!
When selecting sex toys, always opt for reputable brands and genuine products! Additionally, never insert your penis into strange holes or stuff various odd objects into your anus. The door to a new world is opening; enjoy your pleasurable time!
Savor the Afterglow
After the experience, don't jump up immediately. Give yourself some time to enjoy the feeling as the orgasm subsides. Experiencing the changes in your body can also be a pleasant experience.
Clean Up
Due to semen, male cleaning is more challenging than female cleaning. Using a condom during self-pleasure simplifies the cleaning process and makes it safer and more hygienic.
But if you don't want to use a condom, how should you clean up? First, if you're worried about staining the bedsheets, place a cloth or something else underneath to avoid constantly thinking about whether you'll dirty the sheets during the act.
Afterward, wipe away the semen. Most people use tissue paper, but choose soft tissue paper to avoid rubbing and injuring the penis.
If you use a towel, make sure it's soft and clean. After each use, wash the towel thoroughly. Leaving it dirty can easily breed bacteria, and using it again next time may lead to infection. To ensure a sustainable pleasurable experience, don't skip this step!
8. Tidy Up the Battlefield
Since many people don't want others to know they've engaged in self-pleasure, cleaning up afterward is essential. Dispose of used tissue paper and condoms, clean the toys, and tidy up the bed. You can even take a relaxing bath. It may seem like nothing happened, but only you know the true滋味 (flavor/experience)! Alone can be truly wonderful!
