What's the Difference Between a Masturbation Cup and an Onahole?
The term "onahole" originates from Japan. The primary difference between an onahole and a masturbation cup is the presence or absence of a hard shell. Generally speaking, a product without a hard shell is called an onahole, while one with a shell is called a masturbation cup. The advantage of a masturbation cup is that it has an air hole. Don't underestimate this air hole; it can provide incredibly pleasurable suction at crucial moments. An onahole can be seen as an enlarged version of the soft gel inside a masturbation cup. Its benefit lies in its nice, soft feel, offering a different kind of pleasure when stroked.
What Is a Masturbation Cup Used For? How Do You Use It?
Is a Masturbation Cup Harmful to the Body? Will It Lead to Reduced Sensitivity or Dependence in the Future?
As mentioned earlier, a masturbation cup can't replace a real person, so it won't cause dependence.
It's healthier and more liberating for both body and mind compared to manual masturbation, enhancing pleasure.
Importantly, it can also train the sensitivity of the penis and prolong sexual intercourse time, which is beneficial for real-life sexual encounters.
Who Is Suitable for Using a Masturbation Cup?
You may have no sexual experience at all and want to experience a gentle touch that's close to the real thing.
You may be extremely sensitive and prone to premature ejaculation, and want to masturbate while also training your penis.
You may be a seasoned pro who can control ejaculation at will and finds only ultra-high-stimulation products interesting.
In other words, if you're a man who masturbates, a masturbation cup is definitely a good choice.
Additionally, you might be a girl whose boyfriend is currently in a long-distance
relationship. Since he occasionally masturbates anyway, why not give him a masturbation cup to make him happy and impressed? Moreover, training his penis well will also benefit you - when he's more skilled, you'll enjoy it more too.
A Word of Advice About Masturbation Cups
If you have had real sexual experiences and hope to achieve a higher-quality experience with a masturbation cup, I can tell you straight up that a masturbation cup isn't as pleasurable as a real person and can't replace real sex.
Why? Because a real person brings emotions and interaction into the equation. Simple actions and sounds from her can get your blood pumping.
But do men with girlfriends stop masturbating? Don't be naive. Everyone knows that the two are different, and having a partner doesn't prevent you from enjoying some solo time now and then.
If we were to rank pleasure levels: real person > masturbation cup > hand.
So, even if you have a partner, using a masturbation cup can still make your "me-time" more enjoyable.
My Experience: Advice for Beginners
Choose a Masturbation Cup That Suits You
First and foremost, as a beginner, don't blindly trust others' so-called personal experiences. Their feelings are their own; at best, they can only serve as a reference. Everyone's penis feels different, and whether something is loose or tight is something you'll discover for yourself when you use it - it may not be what others describe.
Use Lubricant with Your Masturbation Cup
Many beginners make mistakes when using a masturbation cup, resulting in a significantly reduced experience and premature damage to the product. In most cases, this is due to improper use. First and foremost, remember to always use lubricant when using a masturbation cup. The quality of the lubricant largely determines the pleasure you'll experience. I have a few friends who didn't even know they needed to use lubricant the first time they tried it, and they couldn't even insert it.
Are Electric Masturbation Cups Any Good?
Don't assume that an electric masturbation cup will allow you to ejaculate without using your hands. Most of the so-called "electric" products on the market mainly feature vibration, essentially just adding a vibrator. In fact, men don't really need vibration; it's women who do. So, most people who have tried electric masturbation cups are likely to be disappointed. This is a misconception in product design and marketing. Many manufacturers claim their products are electric when they're really just vibrating. Truly high-end electric masturbation cups should be the rotating type from abroad, but they come at a high price. Ultimately, your own hand is still the best at controlling the rhythm for maximum pleasure.
Cleaning and Maintenance
Whether it's an onahole or the soft gel of a masturbation cup, it's not advisable to turn it inside out for cleaning. The more realistically and finely crafted the soft gel is, the more likely it is to be damaged by being turned inside out. Many people may feel that it's not clean if they don't turn it inside out (perhaps you're a perfectionist like a Virgo), but in reality, cleaning it by inserting your fingers and scrubbing has the same effect. Also, avoid using hot water when cleaning, as it can damage the gel.
Now, the Question Is: Is a Masturbation Cup as Pleasurable as a Real Person?
Many people have this mindset of wanting to compare a masturbation cup to a real person. What I want to say is that this is the gap between ideal and reality. If we really have to compare, even the loosest real person is more pleasurable than a masturbation cup. Why? Because a real person can flirt and interact with you, something that a product can't do. So, those who keep saying that a masturbation cup isn't as good as a real person should just give it a rest. However, for those who haven't experienced real sex or want to try something new, a masturbation cup can still offer a unique experience.
Is a Masturbation Cup More Pleasurable Than Manual Masturbation?
A masturbation cup is definitely more pleasurable than using your hand (the "five-fingered girl"), and the more you use it, the more you'll appreciate its pleasure. You may feel a bit unaccustomed at first, but after a few tries, you'll discover its strengths. Many netizens online have had similar experiences.
What Makes a Good Masturbation Cup?
A masturbation cup with excessively high stimulation may be too much for many people to handle, leading to premature ejaculation and preventing them from enjoying the process. Moreover, it can get boring quickly. Unlike a low-stimulation masturbation cup, which allows for longer enjoyment. However, a masturbation cup with too low stimulation may not deliver the expected pleasure. So, a good masturbation cup will find that perfect balance - providing intense pleasure without overstimulating you. It will also be incredibly realistic - although it may be a bit hard to look at directly, but that's what makes it so "real"!
